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Showing posts with label attitude. Show all posts
Showing posts with label attitude. Show all posts

Sunday, March 11, 2012

March Blahs

Much to my delight looking up the word blah on Google brought me these definitions:
- nonsense, malaise and as an adjective - insipid, dull and uninteresting.

That pretty much sums up this month so far.  It's too late to enjoy winter and too early to enjoy spring.  We need a mid season term.

That mood led me to do this poster.  I need one on my bedroom wall as the first thing I see in the morning:

Cute Bird Saying Hi, Hello, Funny Animal print



and maybe one to take with me when I go out

Cute Bird Saying Smile, Funny Animal necklace

But I'm thinking what I really need to do is Motivate and Encourage myself with this one.

Count Your Blessings, Cute Bird with Silly Look mousepad

So I hope you are not suffering the March Blahs too!

Saturday, February 11, 2012

How Do You Look?



It's been a hectic couple weeks but one thing kept popping up.   I came across a blog by a woman who said that when she was doing nothing in particular like shopping, her resting or neutral face looked angry or upset and people were always asking her if she was okay.

I couldn't believe the number of people who commented saying they had the same problem.  Then I remembered a tv show I'd seen years ago on the same topic.  The host asked people if they were aware of the type of look that was on their face when they were resting and not thinking about anything in particular.
I mentioned it to my daughter and she said her boyfriend had complained about the same problem.

  Apparently all his life, people have thought he was upset or angry when he wasn't at all.  It was just his facial expression when resting.   He said it often made him seem confrontational and it made strangers  defensive as if waiting for him to explode about something that bothered him.  Over the years, he's become self conscious about it and always wonders what expression is on his face before he goes in to meet someone for the first time.

I hadn't thought about it before, do you know anyone with the problem?